If I remember correctly, the switch is located right along the underside of the shifter mechanism.
Pull the console out and look on the drivers side, just down and under the shifter. You will see a white plastic piece attached, lengthwise, to the shift mechanism. That's the shift lever position switch i.e. neutral safety switch.
I found it at Auto Zone. Link to the part I found there:
http://www.autozone.com/autozone/parts/ ... 29275_0_0_
Also found it at Majestic Honda: - look at the middle of the image, right under number 36, look down. That's the shifter position switch - it's part number 4 in the list. Two bolts attach it to the housing, and then the split plug connectors attach to the main wiring harness.
http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/aut ... LECT+LEVER
This is what it looks like :
And this is where you should find it:

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